Hi all,Just a rant and maybe some advice? Personally I n the past I have fallen into the cycle of trying to get a girl to hang out and meet. Being considerate of her schedule and not coming off pushy. But frankly there are some people (I’ll talk about girls since that’s what I know) who don’t care about your time. They will make these tentative plans that are never solidified. There’s never any time or specific day. It can be emotionally jerking especially if you like someone. No she’s not just really busy, she doesn’t like you. I only know because I’ve found out the hard way like many others. HOWEVER I had to remember this did not mean I was unattractive or not worth the time of day. People are immature and don’t know how to be upfront or never engage with you at all if they weren’t at least serious about hanging out. Some people only keep you around for the attention you give them. SPOT THIS FLAG AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. You will save a lot of hurt feelings. Anyway upon talking to this girl, she MAKES time for me. She actively says how she looks forward to seeing me next, and how she had a good time when she leaves. It feels GREAT, not feel sub par or unworthy. Stay up, you deserve more!
Exactly! Don’t waste time on people that wouldn’t sacrifice even a second for you. The ones that are meant to be in your life- the ones that are really worth it- are the ones that simply want to be there.
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